Edwina Cynthia Annette Ashley was born on November 28, 1901, in London, United Kingdom, and she was up in a safe but solitary environment as her parents didn't spend much time with her or her younger sister, Mary. When their mother passed away from tuberculosis, her death had little influence on her daughters. Her father, Wilfred, a conservative Member of Parliament and eventual baron, remarried and sent Edwina to boarding school at the request of his new wife.
Lord Louis Mountbatten, King George's cousin, with his fiancee Edwina Ashley on the liner Majestic arriving in New York on April 10, 1922 |
Sir Ernest Cassel, a German-Jewish financier who had converted to Catholicism at the request of his wife, came to her rescue. He took Edwina under his wing after his daughter died, and she resided with him in Brook House, his Park Lane London mansion. Grandfather's house had so many servants that one was just responsible for cleaning the flower vases. Footmen in uniforms, governesses, valets, chauffeurs and a cook with four assistants became acquainted with the child. Cassel had bought the property in order to attract members of the nobility, a maneuver calculated to distance him from his immigrant background. Cassel's hobby was rearing thoroughbreds, and his biggest victory came during a race when he met the Prince of Wales. Cassel rose through the ranks of the privileged by becoming the financial advisor and confidant of the future King Edward VII.
Edwina's marriage cleared the path to the enclave of the blue bloods since she was a wealthy and desired heiress. At a ball thrown by Mrs. Cornelius Vanderbilt, the society sweetheart met Prince Louis Mountbatten, dubbed Dickie by the royal family. Dickie was connected to nearly every king, prince, and grand duke in Europe through his mother, Princess Victoria, who was a granddaughter of Queen Victoria. Their lavish wedding took place in 1922 at St. Margaret Church. They spent their honeymoon in Spain as guests of King Alfonso XIII and Queen Ena, and the Vanderbilts were thrilled to be their Manhattan hosts. With his pedigree and her money, the newlyweds became the "It couple" of the Roaring Twenties when they returned to London. Visitors like Charlie Chaplin, Noel Cowart, Winston Churchill, and Douglas Fairbanks, Jr. arrived regularly at Brook House.
The wedding did not prove to be a forerunner to a satisfying marriage. While the Mountbattens appeared to be a great fit on the surface, they actually had few things in common. His passion was the luxuries of life, and his lady, who had been up in a world of luxury, was immune to its allure. Edwina also refused to participate in her husband's second fascination: his role as First Sea Lord of the Royal Navy. He was so enthralled with the Navy that he modeled their bedroom after a ship's cabin. When discord arose in the boudoir, their wedding vows were jeopardized even more. The novice pair took pleasure in their joint introduction to the intimate life at first and they welcomed Patricia and Pamela into the world.
Countess of Mountbatten circa 1925 |
Lady Edwina with her daughter Patricia |
Lord Louis Mountbatten with his wife Edwina at Buckingham Palace for an investiture ceremony, February 1943 |
Viscount Mountbatten, the new Viceroy of India and Edwina invite Mahatma Gandhi to the Viceroy's house in Delhi, 31st March 1947 |
Part of their lack of physical connection may have stemmed from Mountbatten's preference for male relationships; while he was known as Dickie to his relatives, he was known as Mountbottom in other circles. Edwina, who was named one of the world's six best-dressed women, shopped at Chanel, played bridge, and danced the Charleston till three a.m., sometimes with Fred Astaire. Motherhood did not bring her out of her spiritual funk; though she adored her daughters, she demonstrated that maternal nurturing is not an instinct. “A lovely little daughter,” Edwina wrote in her diary after Patricia was born. “Too exciting, too sweet,” she said, before entrusting her children's care to nannies as she partied in the south of France. Edwina had a razor-sharp mind, but she was unable to pursue a job due to the oppressive character of her era and class, and instead turned to amorous endeavors. She juggled multiple lovers at times, and her bed, draped in pink satin sheets, became a musical chairs-style game.
Her affair with bisexual West Indian cabaret pianist Leslie Hutchinson was the most salacious incident in her hedonistic journal. Their adulterous affairs came to a stop when the publication The People reported that a woman who was well-connected and extremely wealthy was having an extramarital affair with a black man. To put an end to the issue, King George V commanded Edwina to return home after she had temporarily relocated to Malta, where her husband was deployed. The following day, the pair were formally invited to Buckingham Palace, successfully glossing over the fissures in their marriage.
Edwina's dismal journey came to an end in 1947 when she became engaged in a crucial historical event. After attending Queen Elizabeth II's wedding to Lord Mountbatten's nephew, Prince Philip, their lives were turned upside down when the Atlee administration selected Mountbatten as India's final Viceroy. His mission was to hand over the British Empire's long-serving jewel in the crown to the British people.
Louis Mountbatten, 1st Earl Mountbatten of Burma, with Edwina as Viceroy and Vicereine of India, dressed in official regalia |
Lady Edwina and her lover, Indian Prime Minister Jawaharlal Nehru |
Jawaharlal Nehru was a lonely widower whose greatest passion was the independence of his nation, until he met the woman who proved the adage that opposites attract. They formed a compelling connection despite being of different races, faiths, cultures, and social classes, and Edwina relinquished her spiritual virginity. Unlike her "ginks," however, she went to great lengths to keep her adulterous affair concealed because Nehru's mission came first. Nehru took advantage of every occasion to pay a visit to the Viceroy's opulent mansion, the Rashtrapati Bhava, for a rendezvous. Following Gandhi's assassination, British Prime Minister Winston Churchill saw a newspaper photograph of the Mahatma's weeping Vicereine kneeling on the ground during his cremation. Sir Winston was furious that she had crossed the political divide and urged the Mountbattens to return to England promptly. Edwina assumed the role of the impoverished rich girl once more.
When Edwina visited India or Nehru was in England, the separation was easier to bear. The pair, who were on the same page intellectually and spiritually, had another thing in common posthumously. Lord Mountbatten, his fourteen-year-old grandson Nicholas, and the child's paternal grandmother were killed when an IRA bomb exploded on his fishing vessel off the coast of Ireland in 1979. His daughter Patricia and Nicholas's twin brother Timothy were seriously injured. In a similar sad tone, Nehru's only child, Indira Gandhi, who was acting as Prime Minister at the time, was assassinated by her two Sikh guards in 1984.
Edwina spent her final years mentally adrift, heartbroken and despondent about her lover's enforced separation from her. She died of heart failure in North Borneo in 1960, and on her deathbed were many letters from Jawaharlal Nehru, all written on fine blue paper. But their love story was far from over. Edwina's body was transported by the Royal Navy to her sea burial in the English Channel, where her bereaved lover made a public statement of his love by sending his own Indian Navy frigate to lay a wreath of marigolds on her watery tomb. Edwina found love late in life—the ultimate jewel without price—and it granted her a brief but unforgettable Indian summer.
Lord and Lady Mountbatten with Jawaharlal Nehru in 1948 |
Earl Mountbatten of Burma and Lady Edwina walking on the grounds of Broadlands, their Hampshire home, in 1958 |